and walked in on the guy and his girl making out with their hands all over each other. For a time, Grand Master style (or GM style), a method of strong sexual direct jokes, chase frames, and sexual intent, became one of the most popular methods in the pick up artist (PUA) community, alongside Mystery Method and Gunwitch Method. Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.
What it means is that it should only go so far, and be so often.
That varies from woman to woman, but certainly if she is on top/topping more than maybe 30% of the time, you are going to lose her or share her with a man who never needs to be the girl, sub, bottom whatever, at least not with her.
There is nothing wrong with that, but understand that around these parts, we deal in the *is* not the *should* (according to the mainstream or the pseudofreakstream) of sexuality.
I am not quite sure whether or not nobody else in the world of the open minded is willing to say this because it is against the feminist agenda, or because it is so obvious to the truly kinky that we take it for granted that others should know this. There are too many guys out there who think we women are all drooling for girly guys we can step on while every other aspect of the relationships remains “normal”. Though there is nothing morally wrong with pegging (a woman penetrating a man with a dildo or other phallic object), fisting, or F/m bondage and the like, the who matters just as much as the what.
One day, at that bar – the same place Nathan always spied this guy – he chatted up a pair of girls.