Is he in a place in life where he can support and relate to you?This is something to think about when you are considering dating a younger guy (or any guy for that matter).“I never thought I’d date a younger guy. When I started dating someone younger than me, I assumed there would be some big differences.I couldn’t understand why dating an overweight girl like me would interest anybody.
I was interested in giving a relationship with Mike a try, yet I was afraid.
I was afraid of getting hurt if he wasn’t actually interested in me. Being open and honest with myself, let alone anybody else, was terrifying. I can only remember through the eyes of an obese, insecure teen girl.
But over time, I realized a lot of this was just in my head,” explains Julie.
After a few experiences, she learned to let go of some of her preconceived notions.
Yet I forgot the opinion that mattered most—my opinion of myself.